He wants a threesome
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My boyfriend has been intentionally trying to make me jealous of him and other women lately and it's driving me crazy! He brings up this one girl in particular, T*, who he used to bartend with and is still in contact with. He's brought up the possibility of having a threesome with her, as she's bisexual and he is obviously attracted to her. She has a thing for him, too, and he told me that she offered to give him a blowjob recently. Why would he tell me something like that, other than to make me jealous? Ever since, I've been totally jealous whenever he brings her up and have asked him calmly to stop talking about her to me, but he hasn't stopped. I don't want to make a huge issue out of this, but when I've explained to him how it makes me feel and he continually keeps disrespecting my feelings and hurting me, I feel like it is more than me just being too jealous. I would really appreciate any advice you have on the matter.
He is either completely indifferent to your feelings or he is trying to get you interested in the threesome. If the threesome is out of the question, make that explicitly clear to him (again I would imagine). After that, I would let him know that he is threatening your relationship and ask him if he is willing to live with the consequences. Sorry you are in this situation.
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