Put guy B out of your life and mind
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
in my teens i was going around with a guy A for 6 years,then we broke up as he was over pocessive and tortured me mentally,i was able to come out of his relationship as i got into friendship with another guy B,from the beggining i ahd a strong attraction for the guy B,and though i was reminding myself it was friendship,i fell in love with him,we got physically involved and got pregnant too.later i aborted the baby,though he wanted to marry me.bue to my family condition and culture i was not relly prepared to marry him and at one point i got married to guy C chosen by my parents...though guy C keeps me happy,i havent told about my past to him and i feel really guilty about it.i am still in contact with guy B and we both cry over oru lifes incidents...though i am happy with guy C i still love guy B and cant forget his love or the passion and intimacy we shared...i keep thinking of him...i guininely want to carry on with my married life...how should i ahndle this situation...help me i am in agony...please help me
You are in a sad situation and I am sorry for you. If you truly want to remain married to your husband, you must stop any contact with Guy B. It is only agonizing for the both of you. It would also help your relationship with your husband if you would tell him the truth. A good relationship is based on friendship, love, trust and honesty. If however you feel that the truth would cause an end to your marriage you perhaps should not tell your husband.
-- from George
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