Jealousy always rears its ugly head
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
My now ex girlfriend for the 3rd time is one of the best women on earth, no matter what happens and how much I get jealous she always comes back to me, because she knows how much I love her. This last time I accused her of cheating on me with someone three states away when she went home for Christmas. I know she loves me otherwise she wouldnt keep coming back to me, but she always gets distant about 2-3 weeks after we start dating and thats when I get jealous and start accusing her of cheating, it has alot to do with my last girlfriend cheating on me but Im really tired of taking it out on her, she doesnt deserve this, how do I stop the jealousy and treat her like the angel she is without feeling like shes cheating on me all the time. Ive already explained to her my situation and all she says is that shes not my ex and that I need to stop comparing the two of them. Im hopelessly lost right now and I love her so much but I cant help it.
Jealousy is not unusual but it is a nasty beast which can cause all kinds of trouble. You are lucky she keeps coming back.
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