They Weren't Pretty Enough

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I am 20 do not have a girlfriend and never had one in my life. I have tried but have never succeded with the ones that i wanted. I could have had one but they just weren't pretty enough.

Also everytime i see people with their lover or boyfriend/girlfriend i get this depressed, empty feeling within. Do you have any idea of why i feel this way. Advice
Ummmm, they weren't pretty enough? Are you looking for a painting to hang on your wall? Being in a relationship isn't about finding a ming vase to carry around with you and show off to the crowd. It's about finding a best friend who will hold you when you're sad, encourage you when you're stuck, and triumph with you when you achieve. None of that has anything to do with "pretty enough". I bet if you got a better handle on your priorities in life, you'd have someone there to keep you company ...

-- from Jenn
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