What's with this guy?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I just started a new job about three weeks ago and ended up meeting this really great guy the first week I was there. I am 21 and he is 23, I started flirting with him and he did the same back towards me. He asked me out several times and we had a lot of fun and he really seemed to like me. The issue of his ex-girlfriend was brought up at work by some people about her being "psycho" so to speak. I told him that I was finding out some pretty funny info about his ex and told him not to worry about it. But that night he explained that he did not want a girlfriend at all, but now that I have came into the picture he is starting to re-think the whole idea. He worried that he made a mistake telling me this and called several times explaining that he had a lot of fun with me and cared about me and that we work everything out. Well a weekend went by and he didnt call, I saw him at work and we were on totally different pages. So my question here is what should I do to help out the situation and does he like me or not? Sorry it was long but I really like this guy and have to figure this out! Thanks.
Ask him out for dinner and have a good conversation on this topic. Try to get to the bottom of what his problem is. Don't make it too heavy, but just broach the subject and get his in-person reactions. It's very hard to guess what is going on in his mind, but my advice is to work to find out. More phone calls should also help clarify what's going on.
-- from George
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