Long distance romance
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I have been talking long distance with my girlfriend for over a year and a half ago,(she used to see me when i was in jail and we have met up togethar about 3 other times, we have been pretty intimate and we talk 3 times maybe more everyday.)
I met her at a job that I was doing maintenance work for. During the entire time I've known her she has been living with her boyfriend, whom she is not being honest to, and not telling him that she is with me because she has no where else to move right now. I am trying to help her move upstate, but in the meantime what can she do? I mean it hurts to think she sleeps in the bed with him and plays a roll... sometimes I don't trust her. So I see other people cause I get upset at her.. and the jealousy just goes back and forth... understand?
You are right to wonder about her since she is cheating on her boyfriend. After all, what would stop her from doing it to you. But if you want to go on with the relationship, I like your idea of helping her find a place to stay up-state. Make that a high priority and think hard about how to find a good place and how to convince her. It may not be easy, but who says life is easy?
-- from George
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