Jealousy, jealousy, jealousy
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My issue has been going on for about 10 months now... that is how long me and my boyfriend have been going out.. my problem is that when other girls come over to a party or something they are always staring at my boyfriend and he tends to glance or stare back. i get all emotional and upset becuase i feel that he doesnt want me anymore therefore i get jealous of that girl that 9 times out of 10 looks way better than i do. Also he lives with roomates and one of his roomates girlfriend keeps staring at my boyfriend, i dont know if she is jealous of our relationship because she keeps telling her boyfriend how she wishes he was more like my boyfriend, she keeps staring and glancing at him all the time and i catch my boyfriend looking at her too.. i get all emotional and i just want to break down and i tell my boyfriend i am not good enough for him and i just break down and cry. My boyfriend tells me he will never leave me and that he loves me very much, but i really dont believe that he is telling me the truth when i ask him if he was glancing or staring at a girl when i saw his eyes move and do it. its like he is in denial.When a good looking girl walks in the room i immediately stare at my boyfriend and watch to see where his eyes go, and he is looking at that girl that walks by or what, and then looks at me and says i love you, i do not know why he does that when he looks at her and then looks at me i am already upset for him looking. i really am confused and do not know why i get jealous of other girls this has been a big issue in our relationship and he doesnt help by telling me that i am stupid and i need to stop thinking that way. please help me i am so lost and i need some advice on how to be around him and how to get through my jealousy trips!
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