Guys are strange
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I am in college and lately i have been partying way to much. So i met this guy one night. He was really sweet with me that night. Well we ended up hooking up and that night we kind of had sex. It was my first time and i thought he liked me bc he said that he had asked one of my friends about me. Well the next night we party again and we hooked up again. This time we really did have sexual intercourse. He lives in a different town than i do and his 5 years older than me. So 3 weeks went by and I called him once but he did not answer and i tried text messaging him. Well he did not reply. Well another night i asked him why and he said bc he did not have caller id or text messaging. So this weekend he came down and I saw him and found out he lied to me about the caller id and text messaging. We ended up making out and slept together. (No sex) that night he told me he had a crush on me and that he liked spending time with me. Well the next day i found out that he had told my friend to tell me he did not want me to be hanging on him at the party there was going to be that night. He wanted to spend time w/ his fraternity brothers and he wanted no girls. so i ended up not going to the party. I feel really hurt and want to know what the deal is if he tells me he has a crush and turns around and does that. I really like this guy but i don't know what to do. Please help
He seems to be playing around with you and has little feeling for you. The talk about a crush is probably just talk. Regarding the party, my guess is that he meant what he said, that is that he wanted no girl involvement.
He sounds like a loser to me and my advice is to dump him.
-- from George
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