Asking a Friend Out

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
The girl I like I'm not sure how she feels about me. From what I'm told it's probably just as friends because she doesn't wanna ruin our freindship. I want to be more than just friends,and I dunno how to do it. I know goin out wouldn't ruin our friendship but I think she's scared it will.

What should I do?,and can you give me some tips in how to get her to start liking me more than a freind. And one last quick question is it possible that she'd say yes if I asked her out even though she might like someone else? Advice
I have a whole page on going from friend to boyfriend/girlfriend -

It comes down to getting over that mental hurdle of "I don't want to risk the friendship". So do it slowly. Spend more and more time with her, show her that you care, that you can be close and still be great friends. That in fact the best relationships ARE of people who are great friends and who then share the physical contact too. If you go slowly, she'll realize it without it being a big deal.

-- from Jenn
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