Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
My husband and I have lived together for 18 years and we married 7 years ago. I have always had a problem even after our marriage with his love for other women and porn movies. I have lost all my friends to his sexual advances towards them but later found out. 2 months ago I
found some text messages on his cell from a 19 yr old. But he denied knowing her and she denied sending them and knowing him also. 3 days after this past Christmas I came home and caught him naked watching aporno dvd which had 18 yr old women and 40-50 yr old men doing them. He was exceptionally arroused and didn't want me around. We had sex 5 times within these last 2 years which leads me
to think he is cheating on me. My question to you: is he going through a mid life crisis and am I judging it
correctly by assuming he is having sex with someone else while he engages in his porno watching and drunk binges? This last binge he had red marks between his thighs and on his mid chest area. His private area was sticky and smelled like fresh sex. Desperately seeking the truth. Thank you for your help.
The truth is known by your husband. He apparently prefers to lie about it. My advice is to see a family counsellor immediately and if he won't go, go by yourself. Not only is your emotional health at risk, but he will probably give you an STD one of these days.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com