Time to break up

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Recently I decided that I don't want my girlfriend anymore,
We talked about it and I saw that my reasons we're
not based on anything.
I told her mean things like :
I want someone else, I had enought of you, I don't think we'll belong together ETC....
I decided I thought about her a lot but the bad way: I saw something bad and thought about it all day long, when I realized that - I tried to change it (3 weeks).
The feeling that convinced me to try and leave her is dimming graduatly but it is coming back whenever I try to think about why I was trying to leave her in the past.
Now I think about not wanting to be in this relationship and on the other hand wanting to be in it because I love her.
Is it possible that love should involve suffering sometimes ?

(by asking this I say that the answer is probably no and I ought to leave ---- those are the bad thought too....)

I don't miss her a lot, what does it means ?
I don't want to meet as frequent as she...is it healthy for us ?

thank U in advance...

RomanceClass.com Advice
Seems clear that you want to break up with her. Please read our tips on breaking up at: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveSCat/47

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