Say Hi to her
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I am a highschool senior and I've noticed an extremely pretty girl lately. However, she is a sophmore and I don't know her at all...I don't even know her name. So there is the age issue; maybe a gap of 3 or 4 years. I want to get to know her, and maybe eventually date her but how can I start? Should I even think about it?...considering the age gap and what people would say? I don't really want people to know about it if I did pursue this. I have never talked to her. Please help!!! How can I talk to her without making a scene? How can I be her friend? Thanks!
I dated a sophomore when I was a senior and it was no big deal. Girls tend to be more socially developed than boys. To get to meet her start slow... when you see her always say "Hi" with a big smile. After a while, introduce yourself and ask her her name. Then make some small talk. Then ask her out. Hopefully she will be a friend by then and it won't come as a surprise.
p.s. please do not use email for followup questions. Put the question here on the website. The answer to you email question is "yes" put notes in her locker if that does the trick for you.
-- from George
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