Talk to him
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I'd been waiting for my ex-bf to patch back with me for about 7months.
Recently he had broken up and we had plans to get back together again.
But he gives me the feeling that he is taking me for granted/doesn't treasure me.
What should I do?
I just don't like it when he messages me when he likes and doesn't message me when he doesn't like.
I don't like it when he doesn't really plan on our outing. He is always asking me out at the last minute, or he is always reluctant to give me a confirmed answer everytime I ask him out on this or that date...(e.g tomorrow)
Any suggestion or advice?
Have a heart-to-heart talk with him and let him know how you feel. Ask him if he could mend those bad habits of his. Be friendly about it, you don't want to offend him. Communication is one of the keys to a happy relationship. You don't want to spend time with someone who is constantlly making you unhappy, so do something about it.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com