Keep him as a friend

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I have this boyfriend and we have been together going on two years. Well on Christmas Eve night he went to this party while I was with my aunt at church, and anyways his ex-girlfriend was there. So then he told me that he asked her to danced they danced on a slow song and then on some fast songs.But the only reason how I got this info is when he told me like 2 days after it happen. NOW he says that he isn't in love anymore and that he needs to take time to think about some things and he want's to be single right now and not go with anyone. We are still friends but that's it and he still talks to the girl on the phone and at school.He say's i can't get mad about that b/c we don't date. I'm just asking can you please give me some advice! Advice
My advice is to maintain your friendship with him and make him feel like you are the one he wants to confide in. Be understanding and share your feeelings with him. At this point it is a waiting game and you have to decide how long you will wait.

Good luck,

-- from George
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