Ex is exhausting
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
My ex boyfriend and I tried to get back together this summer. He lives in NYC I live out west. He left his ex girlfriend to be with me and try to give it one last chance. He spent Thanksgiving, Christmas & NYE with me. In between Thanksgiving and Christmas he moved back in with his girlfriend. He bought her a dog and lied to her that he was on a long ski trip. Really he was at my house. This summer he bought me a puppy. I found out that she had no idea where he was and wanted to know why he never answers the phone. He does the same thing to me when he is in NY. She has forwarded me past texts he sent her about getting back together. I saw them. He tried to deny it. Yet, moved back in with her because he needed a place to stay in the city. (Is his excuse) My big question is -- do I tell her that he was with me and our families for all three holidays. Acting like our life is going to work together. Or do I just let it all go and karma can take over. He can just fall back into her arms and she will never know. What is your advise on this? By the way we are both in our late 30's.
He is playing a mean game with both of you. I'd suggest you drop him, but obviously you don't want to. So the, as you say, settle back and let karma do its thing.
-- from George
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