Become close friends with her
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Hi, I am 22 and so is she. I got hang out with this girl about one week ago for the first time with a group of friends. I had met her a few times before at party's here and there. But that night we hung out together and ended up sleeping next to eachother, but did absolutely nothing, just layed there and cuddled. After that I developed real strong feelings. the following weekend the group of friends and I went to her house for new years get together. For 2 days, in public eye she shows no affection of any sort, unless we've had a couple drinks of course. But behind closed doors we would lay next to eachother for hours, not sleeping, talking, just breathing. Basically what my question is that I am absolutley crazy about her, I've never been in love before this, so I have no prior experience, but I know I love her. I just don't want to mess things up by calling, or communicating all the time, even though thats what I really want to do. If you could let me know how to ease my way through these touchy moments that would be great cause the last thing in the world I want is to lose her..
Best thing to do is to become close friends with her. To do this, you have to start communicating verbally either in person or on the phone. She is obviously interested in you and you should give her a kiss on the cheek to start things off if you are lying together.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com