The jealousy bug
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
my girlfiend and i have been together for over 2 years notw and i love her more thane anything, and whenever we are together i amd the happiest person in the world but whenever were apart i immediatly become sad and depressed and i cant stand when she hangs out with other guys. its never alone with them theres always in a group of people but i still get jealous. its slowly beginning to pull us apart as she is getting annoyed with me always worrying aobut her. i've tried to tell myself that its nothing and i jsut need to get a grip but it always comes back. i was wondering if theres anything i can do to help supress these feelings of jealousy and not be so reliant on being with her to be happy.
Every time you get jealous, say to yourself "She loves me! I'm a great guy and I deserve her love. She is good for me." Do this every time you start to get jealous. Don't say you can't do it... you can and it will work.
Also, read our tips on jealousy at: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/23682
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com