Doesn't want to date a smoker
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 months now. Only a bout a two/three weeks ago he told me that he smokes and he's younger than 16. I don't like people that smoke, and now i end up dating a guy that does! After he told me i was going to break up with him.I was thinking; we both love eachother to bits so i was wondering that i really love him so i reaconed that i'll give him a chance if he stops.If he really loves me he'll stop, right...? So it's iether me or he's dumb habbit of smoking!
My problem is, what if promises me that he'll stop, but how do i know that he's not just saying that? how do i know that he's telling the truth if he does that to me.I really love this guy but i don't want to end up going out with a guy that smokes! Please help me make the right choice! (13 years old)
You need to trust him until he proves that he doesn't deserve it. At his age, it shouldn't be hard for him to stop.
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