Boyfriend agonizes over girlfriend's past

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My boyfriend cannot get over my sexual past. He was a virign before me and I was not. We've been together for about 3 months and have grown to really care about eachother, but his constant thoughts about my past really cause problems sometimes. What are some things he can do to try and stop thinking about my past all the time? Thank you. Advice
Whenever the jealous thoughts arise, he should say to himself "She loves me now and it doesn't matter what happened in the past." This will be a big step toward maturity for him. We can't relive our lives so we have to get used to what we did or what someone else did if we want to live peacefully.

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