Fighting the jealous demons
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hey i love your website its so great. Now to my question im a 17yr.old female and i have a gorgeous boyfriend named Brandon i love him so much hes so perfect and even when we fight hes always the one to apologize hes so sweet and sincere now the problem is with me im such a jealous girlfriend! Weve been together for yr and a 1/2. Im so afraid of losing him to another girl even tho he says he loves me and only me and that he would never trade me in for someone else. But i think hes really cute and me i dont think im all that great. Theres a girl at my school and shes so pretty and she flirts with him constantly and he never said anything to her to get her to stop. There in all the same classes and their with eachother all day. She tries being all cute around him and it makes me so mad. Ive talked to her and it hasnt worked and Brandon wont talk to her cuz he dont think its a big deal. He gets so mad when i bring her up in our conversations and it gets us in the bigest fights. Hes told me that he thinks shes all right looking but that i have nothing to worry about. Its so hard to believe cuz shes got a cute lil body and a pretty face and shes sweet and smart. I dont know what to do. How can i overcome this and trust that nothing will happen and how do i feel comfortable with this. Please help!
Jealousy is a hard habit to cure. Each time you start worrying, just say to yourself "But he loves ME" (which is what he is telling you). By making an issue out of it, you are increasing the chances that he will run off with her. Don't do things that you will regret.
-- from George
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