What to do about this girl?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hi, my name is patrick and im 13 yrs old in gr 8. well about 2 years ago my friend told me to add this girl on msn, i said i didnt really want to but he told me i would like her so i did.. I talked to her for a while and stopped talking to her fer about 4-6 months and she got a webcam like about 5 months ago(time lines are not EXACTLY correct)and i kinda started to like her then, because she was pretty and i started to talk to her more and i liked her personality. Just this week me and my same friend, were talking to his friend on msn and we got "our friends number" lets say the girl i like is called A and my friend is B, well we phoned A and we talked to her fer a while and i talked to her fer the first time and she sounded nice and i liked her voice. so me and B tlaked to her fer the next 3 days and then B had to leave, so i phoned A a couple of times but she was busy, but yesterday i phoned A and she was like talking to me fer like a hour! i was so surprised and happy,because usually before i would talk to her and sumtimes if shes havin a bad day she would take like 10 minutes to reply, so while on christmas she was talking to me and actaulyl msged me for the firs time! and we talked and she had to go, B likes her as well, well tahts the background, i was wonderin wut i shud do now, I like her vverrry very much as u can see, but my friend B likes her as well and we decided to meet in real life to go to movies, but styll have to decide on a date, and i found she has a boyfriend but doesnt really like him, so i dont know if she likes me or not and i was wondering how i could become really good friends with her and when she breaks up with ehr bf how can i go in fer the kill? and sometimes i think i bother her to much, i think i msg her on msn 2much taht i bore her out, so shud i wait fer her to msg me? i know this is rly long but i would rly rly aprecciate it if u please helped me thanks - reply patrick
this would rly mean alot to me , thanks
Ask her if you are contacting her too much and if she says yes, then cut back. If she says the contacts are ok then continue contacting her and build up a good friendship so she will consider you for a stronger relationship once her boyfriend is out of the way.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com