Wants to steal guy from his girlfriend

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i met two of my closest friends around the same time, and they had already been friends for awhile. he has been in love with her since theyve known each other. ive now been friends with them for a year, and whenever he had a problem with her, or anything, he came to me about it. he recently called me his best friend. the other day, he and i were hanging out 2gether like usual, and we got into a water balloon fight. at one point in the fight, he slammed into me and pushed me against a wall, and we just stared at each other for about 30 secs with our noses touching, and i think i felt something. and i think he did too. hes still in love with her, but we have more in common, and we get along so much better. she knows how he feels, and treats him like crap, but if she thinks hes losing interest, she'll flirt with him again. how can i get him to see he's better off with me?

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While you may be right that you and he are a better partnership, he still does have a girlfriend (who is also your friend). If you want this to work out, you need too tell him that you care for him and if he ever breaks up with his girlfriend you will be there for him. Meanwhile you want to continue to be his best friend.

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