I love her, she hates me
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
i love her but she doesnt love me she hates me like a hell.
what should i do?
It really depends why she hates you. If she hates you because you cheated on her with her sister and then laughed and told the school about it, there isn't much hope. But if you guys have never even dated, and she just *thinks* she hates you without really even knowing you, the solution is to find ways for her to get to know the real you.
People often get misperceptions about each other. They figure they KNOW each other without even having spent any time with that person. And they then start to love or hate them just based on what they see in the hallways instead of basing it on really spending time alone with each other and finding out what the other person is REALLY like, in REAL life.
So find ways to get to know her better so you can show her your real self. Get involved in the hobbies she is in, and show her which parts of it you enjoy. Get to know her friends so her friends can learn about your better traits. The more of a "familiar" person you are in her world, the more she'll start to think of you as a normal person in that world, instead of a stranger that she doesn't understand.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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