Two many guys
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I met this guy in camp. After spending a few days with him, i really started to like him a lot, and it seemed like he felt the same way as well. After camp, when things started to become normal again, i found out that he had a girlfriend so naturally i was crushed, but we still became best friends. And i found out from him that his cousin who was my friend and past crush liked me so naturally he was pushing us together. For a while i really felt miserable but slowly i started liking his cousin again and my feelings for him slowly faded. Then out of the blue, he suddenly broke up with his girlfriend because for a while their relationship has been on the rocks and he couldnt take it anymore. Now he's telling me that he's been in love with me for the longest time but he was just afraid to tell me because it might have ruined our friendship, he still had a girlfriend then and because his cousin like me as well. Im not together with his cousin and only now i realize that over time, i've developed strong feelings for them both and vice versa, according to what they tell me. Now i dont know what to do anymore because they both get jealous when i spend more time with the other so i feel like i have to choose already between them even though i dont know whether making a choice now could actually lead to something much more serious later on because True Love Waits. So.. um... help, please? i dont know what to do anymore.
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