Two many girlsVisitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
This may sound like some run of the mill adolocent complaint, but i need help. I am seeing a wonderful girl. Finally a serious relationship. She makes me laugh, we enjoy being in each other's company everything. So here in lies the problem...My best friend. She is my #1 confidant. Everything i could possibly imagine or ask for in a friend. We have known each other for almost 6 years now, and we are still as close as we were the day we met. She is the first person who i can honestly say, excluding family, that i truly love. But lately i realize, that if two people really love each other, they should be together. Ive grown so atrracted to her, its unbearable. Not in some crazed sexual way, no, in a more deeper meaningful atrraction. I cant honestly say i love my girlfriend, but she does mean alot to me. But i constantly think about my best friend. In the past we had our times where we liked each other, but never went out with each other. I don't know what to do and its getting to me. Please help. Thank you very much for reading.
This is a tough one. You have to make up your mind. If you choose your girlfriend, you still have two girls. If you choose your best friend you might end up with no girls.
I would advise waiting until after the holidays and see how you feel then.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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