Is his mate bisexual?

Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
This is a long story. I'm not quite sure where to begin.
Well to start, I ve been with my mate now for 4 yrs, and I want to propose to her.
We have had trust issues in the past but no evidence of cheating.
She has spoke about being "curious" about being with a woman. I know sex is a sensitive subject to begin with between us. She knows I feel threatend. Theres alot at stake, finaces and she has one child from another b/f that Ive grown to love.
I just met her friend who has 2 kids and is married but she looks like she could be into women?
I would like to marry her and I want to trust her but I want to know for sure. I dont want her to think Im suspicious or trying to control her, then she'll never trust me about trusting her.
Im thinking maybe hiring a P.I. or a friend to follow her and see if anything is going on.
I do not want to stalk. I do want to trust her but after seeing her friend Im suspicious and I know shes gonna tell me Im crazy. They both are wearing dark nail polish.
I had a g/f once who wore dark nail polish and she was bi, any relation?

please help!

im a mess!

jrc Advice
The thing is to ask her honestly whether she wants to act our her fantasy about having sex with a woman. Don't accept a brush off answer. Try to get the truth from her. If she convinces you that she doesn't, things are fine. If she says she does want to then you will have to make your decision about how you will react.

Good luck,

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