What to do now?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
hi is 8 months to long of a brake to try it agein? how can i go about it? we broke up becouse it seemed evry time we went away and i try to have a good time we would just fight. i realy like this girl i would do any thing to have anthor chanse. how can i go about telling her this. it like i can say in it in my head but it wont come out. and i have pushed my self away from her. ihave drove cross country and back to try to for get about her. ir ealy like her. all i want is to try it agein if she is the one i dont want to lose her. i hate my self for braking up and not going for counling the way she wanted. i do think in a big way i lost the right girl for me. what do i do now it been 8 months i think i am crazy for still thinking about her and going over how i could have done and said things diffrint.
You need to be honest with her and let her know exactly how you feel about her. That is a good starting point for rebuilding a relationship. Tell her that if you can't be a couple, at least you want to be a very good friend. If she agrees, then you will have your chance to work your way back into her heart.
-- from George
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