Honesty is the best policy
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
hi i broke up with my x about 8 months ago. i still miss her and think about her. we both agree to be freinds and we use to hang out. about a day after we broke up she met some guy she dated him for a little bit then they broke up. and i dont know why they broke up. i know she is still close freinds with him as she calls it. i dont know if she is with now now or not. she is a great girl i would do any thing just to know we had one more chanse she is the first girl i evry realy loved i still see her in my dreams. it like i dont realy seem to have a inrest in any one. i conpear evry one to her and that wrong.i think i am crazy to like some one so much after 8 months. we talk ones in a while usly just leave eachother a voice mail "just called to say hi" i have pushed my self away from her becouse i dont realy have a intrest in her new boyfreind. it just makes me feel like crap. is it posible to still get back together after 8 months? or should i give up and force my self to forget about her maybe just stop calling her all together. i dont show her i miss her. i call her only ones a week so i dont think she knows. if any one has any adivce it welcomed.
You need to let her know how you feel. A good relationship is built on trust, honesty, and communication. It is the honesty part that is missing. You have nothing to lose by telling her how you feel. Buy her a nice holiday present and put a hand-written note in it expressing your feelings. It just might work.
-- from George
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