She is confused about him

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i had been with this girl for a year and 3 months the 3 months i got depressed and started snapping at her and not listening and talking about us she started to become resentfull she says and she didnt think i was going to do anything with my life and we argued alot cuss i was depressed and hating it well she hung out with a guy one night gues they hit it off hes smart a mathmatical genuis she says and has it going on she started seeing him more well on the 3rd day they hung out she cheated on me and told me she stoped before he took her pants off she said she felt like a slut and was shaking i forgave her when she told me and asked if we were still together she broke up with me so far ive been going to anger management on my own and will be moving to the citys to make a career she says the long distance was hard to even tho we sall each other everyweek shed spend the weekend or id come up and stay for 4 days i still love she whants to be friends and shes gonna be dating this guy but she talks to me normal jokes with me with stuff that is kinda beyond friendship she says she whants to date and that shes young and not ready for a serouse relashionship but like i said i love her she says she confused if she loved me like 2 weeks ago we had sex then she says she didnt love me she says she confused and anytime i try to talk she dousent im changing myself but how can i get back with her ohh shes 18 im 20 we had realy great relashionship even went out of state together Advice
Sounds to me like you have a chance with her if you take it smooth and easy. Especially remember what you learned in anger management class. She is young and will want to get more experience before committing to you. So you should be patient and be her best friend. That should work in the long run.

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