Getting it together
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. Now I am 8 months pregnant with his child. I still do not know whether this guy is right for me or not b/c we still argue over stupid things. Recently he lied to me b/c he said it would make me happy and that I make him feel too restricted, therefore he had to. I do not think he has any relization on how close it is to our child coming and refuses to communicate with me about anything for instance moving in or what are future holds. How can I get a noncommunicator to communicate with me on these serious issues or is even worth continuing a relationship? How can I make him realize before our child is born that he needs to get it together?
You need to have a hard heart to heart talk with him and let him know that if he doesn't move in with you that you will take him to court and the court will order him to make child support for many, many years. That should catch his attention. Of course you would tell him this is the last thing you want to do but you will have no alternative.
-- from George
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