She wants more experiences
Visitor's Question from a unknown year old Male
Hey my gf and I split up about a month ago now after a 1.5 year relationship, where we were both deeply in love with each toher, the last couple of months of our relationship did grow stale cause I felt it to and sometimes thought I wish I could see other people. We just got into a big routein. Anyway one night I rung her up drunk and we ended up having a sorta of argument where she told me that she was seeing someone else, she told me she still loved me but there was nothing left in the relationship. Turned out she wasen't seeing anyone else we met up about 4 days after the break up, she cried and said she just didn't want to feel like she was missin out. But she did love me. So a week later we slept togeather and then I called her up cause I just didn't know what was goin on. She said she miss's me and loves me but didn't want to get back together at the moment. We have had a months no contact now, I have seen her kiss another guy well she was all over him at a party, but last weekend we spoke after a month of NC well we were sober and while ralking to each other I told her that the picture she gave me back when we split hurt, (It was a picture of me when I was in the royal marines which I bought for her) she said she didn't want to give it back to me and she would like it back, we then had a drink, and she was all over me again cudling telling each other how hot we were blah blah, we were talking and she said the other guy was an idiot and I'm still the best kisser, also that the week before we had split up she hadn't spoke to me much just because she wantedd a bit of time, but when I phoned her that night drunk she was pissed off. So we slep togeather then watched films the next morning while cuddling on the sofa. Then an advert came on the tv about a programme I wanted to watch but I don't have the cable channel and she said I could go to her place to watch it. So I did and about half way through the night she put a pillow in my lap and was lying on me. Then she started to play fight with me and stuff and we had a good time. It was hard to leave. I sent her a text message that night. Saying "thanks for saving me from being board, and to remember to lock the door", I was a bit disapointed when she sent a msg back just saying "anytime" but she put a kiss at the end. I'm just confused now her brother and I live together with his girlfriend and she is coming round next weekend to do something, so it will just be me her and her brother and his gf.
I think she still has the feelings for me but she is enjoying her single life. When she is with me she wants me and realises her feelings but still likes having freedom. She is 17 and I'm 22 Sorry for the length I just put the realvent stuff in.
She's young and wants to experience some more of life than just you. But, it seems you two are a good pair and hopefully this is just a bump in the the long road of love. Sounds like you are handling it just fine.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com