Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
i have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. (we are both 19). for a year of that time he lived with me at my house. now he has moved into his own condo. i am still living at home though. he lets me sleepover at his condo almost every night. on the days that he does not let me sleep over i just can't stop crying when i am not with him. he says that he needs some time alone and i now that it is only fair to give him his space. but why am i constantly crying when i am not with him? is it that i do not trust him? i am not sure, please help me.
Obviously you miss him and want to be with him at all times. Your crying button gets pushed whenever he doesn't invite you over. I don't think it is a question of trust but a feeling of being left out. You really need to ask yourself while you are crying "Why am I crying?" What feelings are you experiencing? The answers should lead you to the root of the problem and help you figure it out.
-- from George
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