Trying to make up
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
i am 18 and my girlfriend is 16. we have been arguing over her working and time seeing eachother lately and she is real stressed out now. we have been together for a year and like 3 months. well she broke up w/ me before like 5 times but not long break-ups. but this time she said how i am constantly stressing her out and she cant handel it anymore. i told her i will chgange and she dont know if she can believe it or not, because i told her i would change stuff before. i mean i have changed stuff before but something new always rises. but back to my question-. she said she wants to break up all together but then i changed her mind and got a week out of her. so she said she needs time away for one week. she also said not to bother her at all during that time. well after she told me that we got off the phone. well today we went and closed out our saving account that we had for when we move out and get married. she wont wear her braclet with my name on it. but i asked her at the bank if we still have a chance and she said she dont know but if i leave her alone she said probably. she said if she gets lonely she will call me and talk but i can not call her. what should i do? we have this thing that like if i say i love her she tells me i love you more!. well i said i loved her today and she said ilove you more. i mean i dont know what to think even. other times this happened we were fighting we broke up then she came back becaused she missed me. like she said that she thought of me all day at school today. i dont know. i love her sooo much and i dont want to loose her for good. i am trying to change but how can i make her realize i am?
My opinion is that a girl of 16 is incapable of making a decision and sticking with it. She is just not mature enough. You have to resign yourself to sitting back and waiting for her to contact you.
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