Write him off
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I'm friends with this guy and we've been friends for about six months now. however it seems a bit onesided. he calls adn demands my presence however if i call him he does not answer his phone. he never replies texts or even acknowledges answerphone messages left by me. on friday we were meant to meet up and he said he'd call and fix a time. he did not but then turned up at my house at 8pm and expected me to be ready. we had a huge fight and i said he was taking me for granted and irritating me by doing this. he said he did not do it deliberately but if i kept getting upset with him like this he would start doing these things just to upset me. we arranged to meet on tuesday and he never turned up. i called him but no answer. i finally got him wednesday and he said he had the flu and had been ill since saturday... he never called or text to cancel our meeting and never apologised to me for the omission. just said oh yeah we were meant to meet. he refuses to give me a postal address despite knowing where i live and is very cagey as to the reasons why he can't let me have the address. Help please should i just accept him on face value as a forgetful sort or should i just forget he exists? i have already called him too many times... he is always very sweet when we meet or when we talk but he is driving me a bit bonkers with his behaviour.
thanks a lot
Write this guy off and forget he exists. He has abused you enough. You probaably have plenty of other friends anyhow. Now once you stop contacting him, he will come alive. Go figure.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com