Drunk or sober
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
OK my and me where best friends for 5 years before we got together. We where together for a year and a half. Then he broke up with because i got to dependent on him and we where fighting alot. This breakup was very hard for me i was extremely depressed. A couple months after we broke up he got a new girlfriend after i found that out i tried to move on by goin out and hangin with my friends. I had lots of fun doin this i was not depressed anymore but always loved him and wanted him back just wasnt dwelling on the issue. Well about a month ago my ex and his girl friend seperated and he started callin me when he was drunk tellin me he loves me and that hes still in love with me and is glad where still bestfriends but when i ask him if we can get back he says we have to start slow as friends first. Thats fine with me but he only really calls when hes drunk and when he does call while bein sober hes not as open or he avoids the issue. So am i being lead on is he just using me or does he really love me and want to get back with me.
Next time he is drunk, ask him to take you out sometime (not at the moment). Then when you are together and he is sober, ask him what is going on. There is no use you or I trying to guess what he really means. He must have some feelings for you because he calls you when he is drunk.
-- from George
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