Lacks sex drive

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My boyfriend and i have been together for over a year living together for almost all that time. He has changed from being affectionate and touchy feely to barely ever kissing me.. our sex life is less than nothing (once every 3 or so months no exaggeration. He doesnt even kiss me anymore (except the everyday "peck" on the lips.... He says he loves me and wants to be with me he just doesnt know whts wrong wit him he says he is attracted to me just not into sex what can i do? The times we do have sex its great for me and he says its great for him to.. he also says he is more comfortable with himself when he drinks!!! Advice
Something is inhibiting him from sex and drinking helps reduce those inhibitionss. My advice is for both of you to see a sex therapist and quick. Something is not normal.

Good luck,

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