Tell him that you care
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i have a friend who i really care about and we have been friends for about 7 years i always had feelings for him but never told him we hung out alot but i kinda of lost touch with him for two years but i always asked his boy how he was i recently seen him and we got back into being real good friends we talk almost everyday but i feel like i need to tell him how i feel sometimes i get the vibe that he really cares but sometimes i feel that i don't mean as much i want to tell him how i feel but i really don't want to lose him as my friend another thing is he was in school for the two years we lost touch and he's school is nine hours away I really have genuine feelings buti don't want to be rejected what can i do? how can i tell if he has feelings for me?
The answer is to tell him the truth. If your friendship is good, it won't hurt the friendship. But be tactful. See our tips at: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/friendlover.asp
Hope this helps,
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com