Tall tales from boyfriend
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
hey, i'm 13 and i was wondering if my bf is trying to make me jealous or is he playing me or whatever? we've only started for around 2 weeks but we're really close! we always say we love each other and it seems so natural. everytime he talks to me he talks about girls. sometimes i think he jus want to see me jealous thats why he make things up but sometimes it seems like he really isnt making it up. he told me this girl really likes him and he kind of like him back and all these things to make me really jealous but then at the end of it he tells me he rejected her becuz he loves me. he always does that. i'm not even sure if its ture or does he like making things up. i'm sure he love me through. and this other time he asked me what would i do if he was cheating on me... it seemed like he really is but doesnt want to hurt me... but he said he was just asking and that he would never cheat on me! i sometimes dont know what hes thinking... please help me. thx!
Two important parts of a good relationship are trust and good communication. Sounds like you two are off on the wrong foot on both. You need to tell him to only tell you the truth and that the stories about other girls make you unhappy. If he really cares for you, he will stop telling those stories.
-- from George
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