No butterflies

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Hey there. I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 3yrs and we been thruogh good time, bad times and worst times but right now we are good. But lately i have been feeling like something is missing. I used to get butterflys when i missed her and hadnt seen here for a few days. i still miss her when i dont see her but that butterfly feeling is not there anymore. I love her to death and we are really tight, shes my best friend, we talk all the time, cook each other dinner and look after each other when we are not feeling well. Perhapes we have jus fallen into a predictable routine? I love spending time with her but its jus feels that we need some more excitment thats the best way i can describe it. Thanks for your time. Advice
This is not an unusual pattern to develop as you become more and more used to each other. It sounds like you have an ideal relationship otherwise. Here are some tips on livening your lovelife:

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