He's no good for you
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
My ex boyfriend I were together for 6, going on 7 months. We fell in love extremely fast and told each other that we loved each otjer after 2 weeks. After that everything seemed to be perfect. We were the perfect couple and I loved him very much. After about 4 months of dating, we began to lose that connection that we earlier in the relationship. We had broken up about two or three times and they were all because of me. Despite how I was feeling, I thought that he might have been cheating on me, I continued to stay with him because I was convinced that we loved each other. In the beginning of August, perhaps the end of July, he told his cousin (who happens to be my best friend) that he was planning on breaking up with me if I got on his nerves before he and his family went to Florida, which was going to happen the week after. His cousin told me what my boyfriend said, and my boyfriend and I had a talk that night and decided not to break up. We stayed together for about another two weeks and then my boyfriend went to a party and I found out that he had danced inappropriately with some girls (even though he told me that he didn't dance at the party) and got a lap dance from one of them. I had a long talk with my best friend and I decided that I was going to break up with byfriend that night. However, before I could, my boyfriend texted me on my cell phone with a simple "its over". I was upset that I had been dumped and even more upset over the fact that I didn't think I did anything wrong. I called him later that night and asked him "why" and he said "I just want to be single". He had stressed that idea to me before about a month earlier buthe said hat he was was happy with me and he loved me so I never though anything else of it. Two days later I found out that he was trying to get together with a mutal friend of ours's stepsister. SO MUCH FOR WANTING TO BE SINGLE. Its been 2, almost 3 months since we broke up and I must admit that though I wanted to break up with him too, I miss him and I really want him back. I think about him continuously, but because I don't know exactly how he feels, I keep these feelings to myself, not telling anyone, not even my best friend. Everyone thinks that I am WAY over my ex. But I'm not. I want with all my heart to get back with him, but we've seen each other once since we broke up and we didn't speak at all. I don't know what to do. Please help me!
I am sorry you are in this situation. Unfortunately, my advice is to make every effort to forget him. He is not worthy of you. You deserve better than to be treated like he treated you.
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