Wants to lose viginityVisitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I have been thinking of loosing my virginity but im not sure i can take the pain all i want to do is loose it and not go areound and be a slut and sleep with everyone i just want to loose it beacause most of all my friends had sex and i just wanted to know is it really going to hurt and am i going to bleed alot?
The answer is different for each woman. For most there is slight pain and a small amount of bleeding. Other have no pain or bleeding. And a few feel a lot of pain and a lot of bleeding.
Here is another view from our tips:
When you are a virgin you often have a thin membrane over your vagina to keep dirt out. Sort of like an eyelid covering an eye. So all that happens during that first sex incident is the membrane is ripped and no longer covers the vagina. Many girls have this happen long before sex by other activities like horseback riding or bike riding or so on. So some girls bleed during the first sex, some don't.
If you did have that membrane rip during sex, again, it's just a thin tear like if you ripped your fingernail a bit. It should heal up pretty quickly. It definitely shouldn't bleed for four days straight. I would talk to your doctor and have that looked at.
Hope this helps,
-- from George
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