Going to Iraq
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I have a boyfriend that i have been going with for almost 4 months now. I love him a lot and will do anything for him and he feels the same way. He is in the army national guard and just got back from basic training. When he got back he had about a month before he had to go be stationed somewhere. Every weekend he could(which was every one)he would come to my town and stay with my cousin and we were always together!! At first we were just in like and the day before he left he said he really loved me and always wanted to be with me. We talk almost every night now! He found out that he had to go to Iraq in January, and stay for a year. I wont ever get to see him anymore and it hurts really bad. I love him but i dont know if i should stay with him while he is gone. I also have another problem, i still like my ex-boyfriend, and he calls me sometimes asking me if i want to hang out with. I would feel bad if i did, but he is such an awesome friend and i dont want to lose his friendship. I still kind of have feelings for my ex too. What should i do? Should i break up with my boyfriend now becuase he is going to Iraq and what should i do about my ex.(which lives in my town and i see him EVERYDAY)
There is no easy answer to this question and I am sorry you are in this situation.
One thing to consider when considering you ex vs your boyfriend is to ask yourself which one has been most trustworthy with you. Sounds like your boyfriend is trustworthy, but how about your ex?
After considering this, then go with your heart.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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Right for country
Stay with him