Talking about the baby
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
hey its me im the one who sent you the email about "when to get my fiance pregnant" well there is a problem now before i emailed you guys we would always talk about the baby you know like oh my god we cant wait and stuff like that well i kinda went from saying alot to here and there and she is starting to complain to me about her being worried about me not wanting to have the baby anymore but just to have sex with her she says she is worried that i care more about sex with her than i do having a baby with her when i told her 6 months ago that i would never use her for sex and she told me she believed me well now shes worried i care about sex more than the baby and i keep telling her i dont i say look honey just because i dont talk about the baby 24-7 doesnt mean i care about sex more than the baby and she says yeah i guess so but then she says but you used to say it all the time and now its just here and there i dont get what i did wrong i mean i never talk to other women hardly ever i always give her my attention so she shouldnt think im cheating on her and i mean i did go from talking about the baby 24-7 to here and there but that doesnt mean i dont care about it anymore i still do! she brings it up here and there to and she says your i am acting different but i dont know what to tell her because i dont see a problem in any of this i mean just because i went from talking about the baby 24-7 to here and there doesnt mean i am a completely different person but she is still worried im using her for sex now and i am not! i dont get why she is acting like this out of no where she wasnt worried a month ago or anytime before that this all started happening like 2 to 3 weeks ago i just dont get it is she cheating on me or somehing is that where this personality is coming from its just she has never worried about me using her but now she is out of no where and i didnt do anything to give her a reason to worry about it do you have an i dea of whats goin on? please help! thanks
No I don't think she is cheating on you. She is going thru a mood. You can solve the problem by talking about the baby more. Or buy a present for the baby.
-- from George
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