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Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Hi, Ive liked this guy for about 3 years on and off. He asked me out about 4 years ago and i said no. He has also liked me on and off as well. But now that i feel like he did then, I want to go out with him. My friends think that I should tell him how I feel. But the problem is that Im not the type of person to just come out and say how I feel. I already know that he likes another girl, but is there a possibility that he still has those feelings for me that he did then? My friends have also told me that I need to find time to talk to him face to face but we are both very busy in the things that we are involved in and only have time to talk online. What should I do to let him know how I feel? Also what should I do to find out how he feels about me?

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You will need to take the bull by the horns, muster up some courage and let him know that you care for him. You have enough background with him that it will not shock him to hear it from you. Perhaps he has feelings for you too, you won't find out except by being open with him.

Good luck,

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