Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been together with my boyfriend for 3 months. He proposed me for marriage but I am really worried and want to know him better. Whats woories me is that he sometimes jokingly hits me and if i hit him back he gets angry and even hits me much harder . If I ask him why he hits me and I shouldn't he says żou are a girl and you shouldn't raise your hand on me". Tha't worries me if after marriage he will be hitting me because i think he wants to make me used with this behaviour of his. He does it jokingly but it hurts me. I ma confused with this treatment , please advice.
I am sorry you are in this situation and you are wise to be concerned.
Your boyfriend is being abusive to you. He will continue if you get married and things will probably get worse. My advice is to dump him as soon as possible.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com