Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I am 15 and i have been dating this guy for about 3 years now...he was my first love and we took each others virginity...I loved him alot and i still have some feelings for him....but he break up all the time like every other week...I always manage to take him back...and he convinces me that he loves me and everything he cries right in front of me..... I mean he balls right in front of me....and then like a week later he finds a reason to say its over.I dont get it..im so confused should I CONTINUE TO KEEP TAKING HIM back or to try and move on what should I tell him if he comes back again?
I am confused too. His behavior is strange and he seems to have gotten into a habit of dumping you and then coming back crying to be taken back. Understandably you have gotten tired of him doing this. My advice is to have a close talk with him to try to find out why he does this thing. Tell him that your feelings for him are getting weaker because of his behavior and that you won't accept his crying in the future. He needs to make up his mind what he wants. And you too.
-- from George
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