Don't know what to say

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Ok well I am 15 and I have a gf. I try and talk to her but i just dont know what to say to her really all i say is hey whats up and the normal respons is nothin much but after that i dont know what to say. When we are at partys we dont do much all we do is watch a movie or so and we dont do any thing cuz i want to but i dont want to force anything on her what do u think? Advice
It is really tough when neither of you are comfortable talking. My advice is to talk about what is in your mind at the moment. Suppose you were thinking "I wish I could think of something to say" then just say it to her. She will probably say the same thing back. Then ask her if she has any ideas how to improve your talking together. Have some ideas of your own ready-- like asking about her parents and brothers and sisters. Or ask what classes she is taking and which is her favorite and which is the worst. Tell her what you like about her (she'll love to hear that).

You should feel comfortable giving her a hug when you see her and when you say goodbye. Kissing could be something you talk about.

Good luck,

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