Pain of losing virginityVisitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
HI IM 18,MY BOYFRIEND AND I HAVE KNOWN EACH OTHER FOR A YEAR NOW,AND HAV DISCUSSED HAVING SEX.WE ARE BOTH VIRGINS,BUT WHATS HOLDING ME BACK IS THE FACT THAT FRIENDS HAV TOLD ME LOSING YOUR VIRGINITY IS VERY SORE AND THAT THERE IS NO PLEASURE IN IT FOR THE FIRST FOUR OR FIVE TIMES,ME BEING TERRIFIED OF PAIN MAKES ME HOLD BACK.ARE THE FACTS OF MY FRIENDS TRUE???AND DOES IT PAIN THE WHOLE TIME WHILE WE ARE ACTIVE?
The pain varies from none to a lot depending on the woman. Some women have already broken their hymen from sports. Other women have very thick hymens which might require a doctor's assistance.
My advice is to take it slowly and determine for yourself whether the pain is too much for you.
-- from George
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