I like my best friend's ex
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Hi, I'm a sophmore (bout to turn 16 in 5 DAYS!!)) i like this guy which is wayy older than me. he's already graduauted. well i've lik him for over 9 mnths now, and he really hasnt done anything. he flirted with me a little bit here and there, but when his ex is around he doesnt talk to me much or do soo much with me, but when his ex isnt there he always 'messes' around with me. and the thing is, it bothers me soo much.. but i'm the best of friends with his ex so i love her soo muchh... but when i think of him and his ex.. it makes me wanna hate her soo much... wat should i do?! i like the guyy sooooo much.. but it's hurting my relationship with my friend, even though she doesnt kno it. HELP ME!
The most honest thing you can do is to tell your best friend that you have feelings for her ex. She may say it is ok. If she says no, then you have a hard decision to make-- whether to give up your friend for the boy. You aren't even positively sure that the boy is strongly interested in you. So be careful how you choose.
-- from George
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