Sometimes he's Friendly, Sometimes he's Not
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I like this guy, but he acts like he likes me sometimes, and then other times he acts like he doesnt. What should I do?
Isn't that annoying? People can do that for all sorts of reasons. One, it could just be the mood he's in. If he's happy, he's likely to share his happiness. If he's grumpy, he tends to take it out on nearby people. So he could just have mood swings and you're caught in them.
It could also do with the people that are around. Maybe he's really self conscious about what people think of him. So when it's "safe" to show he likes you, he does. But when people are watching him, he doesn't think it's "cool" to show affection and changes his attitude. If he's like that, hopefully he'll grow up soon and realize that the only person he has to please is himself and you, not an "audience"!
The next time he acts non-friendly, take action. Be even more friendly to him and make a joke about him being not-friendly. And keep track if he seems unhappy in general or if there are eyeballs on you. That will help you figure out what's going on. If nothing else, it'll make it more obvious to him that he's not being nice, which might help him learn to change.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com